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20 Things to Say to an I'll Person

Things TO SAY to an ill person #1 I don’t know what to say, but I care about you
Things TO SAY to an ill person #2 I’m going to the grocery, what can I get you?
Things TO SAY to an ill person #3 Do you just need to vent? I’m all ears!
Things TO SAY to an ill person #4 If you need a good cry, I’ve got plenty of tissues and a shoulder
Things TO SAY to an ill person #5 I really admire how you are handling this. I know its difficult.
Things TO SAY to an ill person #6 I’m bringing dinner Thursday. Do you want lasagna or chicken?
Things TO SAY to an ill person #7 Can I get your kids 4 a playdate? My kids R bored. 
Things TO SAY to an ill person #8 I cant sit still. Got any laundry I can fold?
Things TO SAY to an ill person #9 What can I pray 4 you about that no one else is praying 4?
Things TO SAY to an ill person #10 Can I bring a few friends over 2 clean your house fast?
Things TO SAY to an ill person #11 I don’t have any idea what U R feeling, but I will always listen
Things TO SAY to an ill person #12 I saw these flowers & thought they’d cheer you 2day 
Things TO SAY to an ill person #13 How can our church encourage those with chronic illness?
Things TO SAY to an ill person #14 Tell me what it is really like to be you for a day
Things TO SAY to an ill person #15 I made too much dinner for our family. Can I bring U some?
Things TO SAY to an ill person #16 U R amazing. How has your illness given you appreciation 4 life?
Things TO SAY to an ill person #17 Do U want me 2 come over while U wait 4 test results?
Things TO SAY to an ill person #18 U listen 2 me better than any other friend. Thanks
Things TO SAY to an ill person #19 I have Monday free if you need me 2 run some errands or take you
Things TO SAY to an ill person #20 – Tell me about this God who gets U thru 1 more day?




XoXo,


Nicole :-)

Trying new things

Hey you guys..

Since the summer has started I've been trying a lot of new things.. Well more like being the real me. Since becoming a mother and wife I thought I had to fit the perfect role, you know the Steferd Wives! Lol.. Don't laugh at me, I'm just being honest.. Not trying to follow or fit that roll I've become very unhappy with myself and my life. So I decide I was going to do what makes me happy.. With limits of course..

So first thing I brought was a red dress! I took the dress back because it didn't fit well. My size large was extremely to short! SHORT.. So I changed it for an X-Large and it was to wide.. So I totally gave up on that notion. But I also took the plug and painted my nails RED!! Yes red, I haven't found the red lip stick yet but I will..

So I also went shopping for a few summer outfit and instead of jeans shorts and denmin carpi's I got demin spandex! Black and blue and then to top it off I purchased bright shirts and sandals.. I gotten a few bright color sun dresses. The bright blue, like the ocean water. Multicolor ones and they are low cut for some booby action or strapless. Then I purchased my smell goods. Perfume! Mariah has a nice one, Tommy girl true star is nice. Victoria secret has two body mist I love.. I wear it everyday. It's by Pink and one smell is soft and dreamy and the other is warm and cozy with glitter inside. Yesterday I brought a shimmering moisture mist by Calgon called Angelic Kiss and I paid $6 and it smells so so good.. Can't wait to try it on. I know some people feels that glitter is for young kids but I'm a young kid at heart.. And I'm learning to do what I like and want.

I started doing my nails in the fun colors I always l loved, instead of French tip. There's nothing wrong with French tip but it's not for me! Only for a special occasion. I want to wear my hot pinks and bright blues, exp.. Today I tried the Sally Henson nail polish tape and its cool so far. I have the gold glitter on my hands and toes.. I finally found some navy blue eye liner. Can't wait to wear that.. The other day I had on my lavender strapless dress and out purple eye liner.. So so beautiful.. I also have green, can't wait to wear that one too.. But today I'm going to spray my gold glitter body spray with my gold nails and put on my short shorts I got free from old navy and a black tank top and my black flip flop and trail along with my husband while he walk proud with me on his side... Not because I look good, it's because I feel good and that the person he feel in love with...

Back to the old Nicole which is the new me!!

Later my loves

Xoxo
Nicole

My Anniversay 7/13/2002 - 7/13/2011

9 years ago I married a man I was so in love with… I was 24 years old and he was 25 years old.. Before we were married all we kept hearing was we was too young to get married and we didn’t know what we were getting ourselves into, but to be honest! We didn’t care, and had no clue about what marriage was all about! We just thought being in love was all we needed… Oh boy was we wrong! LOL Speaking from my truth and heart, I just knew I didn’t and couldn’t see myself living without this man.. He said all the things I never heard from a guy, boyfriend or any male in my life and that I was the most beautiful girl he had ever meet  (meaning that I was so loving, understand and have a great sprit) and he showed me in many ways. He would pull the car over on the highway and dance with me, dedicate songs to explain how he felt (only because he didn’t know how express them out in his own word and always gave me flowers), He’s a protector and boy did he and still do protect me..

Now during our 9 year of marriage wasn’t easy because we all know the flesh is never satisfied! We both dealt  with distrustfulness, dishonesty, unfaithfulness, etc and threw it all we was still in love and still wanted to be with each other so we fought for our marriage by talking to family, friends and anyone else to help us thru these tough times.  But we never went to the main person who could, knew and totally understood what we was going thru and needed to survive and that’s GOD!!

Once we started counseling threw a church and I started to pray for my husband and fast for our marriage things started to get better. We started to talk more to get a better understanding of who we were as individual persons and not as his wife and her husband and the parent of our two beautiful children. I’m not saying that there wasn’t times that I did not like my husband and his ways but I always loved him. So that plate that we was holding with distrust, dishonesty, unfaithfulness, lies, misunderstanding, selfishness, jealousy, etc.. We broke and burned that plate!!!!

We picked up a new beautiful plate with God in the center! With trust, honesty, faithfulness, love, understanding, etc.. But the devil would always pop his nosey head in some way form or fashion.. Because, like I said the flesh is never satisfied. So we also picked a beautiful umbrella that protects our flesh from the sun showers of lush, rainstorms of no trust, thunder storms of unfaithfulness and even the fire balls of hate!!

So on that note I want to say Happy 9 year Anniversary to my wonderful husband Ed… Love you very much and I’m blessed to have you in my life!!!

Thanks for reading my story and I’m signing out

XOXO

Nicole ;-)